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BDSM Plug
A butt plug is a type of sex toy that does exactly as the name promises: plugs the anus and rectum. It is used for sexual pleasure and to …
BDSM Collar
At its most basic level, a collar can express the formal ownership of the sex slave or the sub. It exemplifies the transfer of authority or power to the …
BDSM Whip
All of these whips can be used in what the BDSM community calls “impact play,” which can include spanking, whipping, flogging, and caning. Of …
Candle
Wax play is a form of temperature play practiced in a BDSM context, in which wax from a candleis dripped onto a person’s naked skin, in order to introduce …
Eye Patch/Eye Blindfold
An eye mask is a toy that covers your eyes or your partner’s eyes for sexual pleasure. What should I look for when buying eye masks? Make sure that the item …
Flirting Feather
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Handcuffs/Footcuffs/Ankle Cuffs
Handcuffs are the ultimate BDSM sex toy for those looking to begin their adventure into the world of bondage. While a simple belt can be a …
Instruments for torture
Many of these instruments of torture used on women display an overt … The BDSM subculture adopted a mild variation of the device, using it like a …
Kits
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Mouth Gag/Ball Gag
Mouth gag is any sex toy, commonly used by those engaging in BDSM sex play, that’s placed inside the wearer’s mouth to prevent them from …
Nipple Clamp/Nipple Clips
Nipple clamps are used in some BDSM activities, such as breast torture. Varieties of clampinclude clothes-pin-style, tweezer, clover, and piercing clamps.
Paddle
A spanking paddle is an implement used to strike a person on the buttocks. The act of spanking a person with a paddle is known as “paddling”.
What Is BDSM?
So, what exactly does it stand for? “BDSM is a catch-all term for a variety of activities and relationship dynamics,” says Derek Newton. Here’s his handy breakout of BDSM — what each letter stands for and the meaning behind it.
- B – Bondage and restraint: This refers to having your physical movements or senses limited by things such as rope, cuffs, blindfolds and gags. Or doing this to someone else.
- D – Dominance and submission: The act of establishing a powerful, in charge role while another person is subservient or following direction. This can be either sexual roles, or life long relationship dynamics.
- S – Sadism: The enjoyment of giving another pain. In BDSM, this is often done by uncomfortable restraint or impact play such as erotic spanking — or using other tools such as clamps or hot wax. It can, but does not always, also involve restraint and bondage.
- M – Masochism: Basically the inverse of sadism — the enjoyment of receiving pain.
Generally, any act of intimacy that touches on these areas can be considered BDSM. But before you go rummaging through your drawers to see what you might be able to use for your foray into BDSM, it’s worth noting the importance of using actual BDSM toys rather than going the DIY route.
Put it all together, and you’ve got bondage and restraint, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. And while those are all words that typically have a negative connotation associated with them, BDSM play emphasizes sexual play that’s safe and consensual, where all parties involved have established clear boundaries.
Sex educators have come up with their own definitions of BDSM throughout the years, which has helped shift the perception into a more positive light. Janet W. Hardy, co-author of The New Topping Book defines BDSM as “an activity in which the participants eroticize sensations or emotions that would be unpleasant in a non-erotic context.” For example, having your partner talk down to you in your day-to-day life wouldn’t feel good — but in a role-playing scenario where the two of you are intimate, it can heighten the pleasure of the experience.
BDSM is also not exclusively a two-player game. Not only can more than two people engage in BDSM play (with consent, of course) but in recent years there have been publications, clubs and social forums that have gained traction that are dedicated to all facets of BDSM play — set in motion to both break the negative stigma behind it, and to encourage BDSM enthusiasts to meet one another in a safe, judgement-free environment.
BDSM goes beyond incorporating a few intense toys into your lovemaking routine. The art of BDSM hinges on creating a trust between two partners, one that breaks down walls and allows partners to be truly vulnerable with one another.
There are many different kinds of dildos. You can find ones that are:
- Made to look like a penis with testicles
- Made to be strapped on with a harness
- Meant for two partners to use at once, called double-sided or double-penetration dildos
- Vibrating dildos
- Made with a suction base to adhere to a surface
- Glass or metal dildos
Dildos have been around for thousands of years. In the Hohle Fels cave in Germany, archeologists unearthed a dildo about 28,000 years old.
How BDSM Sex Works in Relationships
Practicing BDSM sex in a relationship can be enjoyable for both people. Many people who engage in BDSM see it as a form of release, an exploration of trust, or a space to act out fantasies of submission, vulnerability, and control.
One small study found that participating in a BDSM dynamic may reduce stress and improve mood. Other research found that participating in healthy BDSM scenes fostered feelings of intimacy between partners.
In a relationship with two partners, one will typically play the dominant role, while the other will play the submissive role. A “switch” is an individual who shifts between the dominant and submissive roles, depending on the partner and the context. This dominant and submissive dynamic is often referred to as a top/bottom dynamic. While the dominant partner or top is typically the one taking control in spanking, bonding, whipping, or other sexual scenarios, the submissive may also maintain control by demanding the top perform certain roles or insist on switching roles.
Safety Advice and Special Considerations
The most important part of BDSM sex is the act of consent. Partners should always make sure everyone gives enthusiastic consent and outlines clear boundaries. These boundaries can be laid out in a formal contract, a verbal agreement, or a more casual conversation about desires and limits.
Due to the intense nature of some BDSM scenes, it is also important to introduce a safe word. If one partner becomes uncomfortable with any part of the experience, they can speak the word to stop the current act — or stop the sex altogether.
Another way to negotiate boundaries is through the traffic light system. Each color communicates how a partner is feeling and what they want. Red means they want the partner to stop what they’re doing immediately. Yellow means they want their partner to slow down, either due to physical discomfort or reaching a limit. Green means they like what the partner is doing, they feel comfortable, and they want the act to continue.
Before you engage in more intense forms of erotic play—like the use of whips, advanced bondage techniques, or sex toys—it’s a good idea to educate yourself on these practices first, through classes, books, or instructional online content.
Finally, partners participating in BDSM sex can practice what is known as aftercare. This is when partners take care of one another after a scene, including cuddling, hydrating, bathing together, or another calming activity. It can also include a discussion about what worked, what didn’t, and how each partner is feeling. This post-sex debriefing can help protect all participants physically, mentally, and emotionally.
How to Explore BDSM Sex
If you’re interested in trying BDSM sex, there are some “light” BDSM practices that may be a good starting point for beginners. These can include:
- Hair pulling
- Handcuffs
- Scarf or tie bondage
- Blindfolds
- Light spanking
- Role-playing
Most importantly, communicate with your partner about your desires. BDSM includes a wide range of sexual activities and dynamics, and each person will approach BDSM sex differently. Be honest with your partner about what you’re looking for and what you’re comfortable with.
What are sex toys?
Sex toys — also called adult toys or “marital aids” — are objects people use to have more pleasure during sex or masturbation. Sometimes sex toys can also have medical uses if you have a sexual dysfunction or medical condition. There are many different types of sex toys, and people use them for lots of different reasons.
It’s totally normal to use sex toys, but it’s also totally normal not to — it’s a personal decision, and everyone’s different. As long as you’re using sex toys safely, there’s nothing harmful about it.
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Why do people use sex toys?
All kinds of people may choose to use sex toys, for many different reasons. For some, using sex toys is the easiest (or only) way they can have an orgasm — this is especially common for people with vulvas. Sometimes people use sex toys to help them masturbate. People also use sex toys during sex with their partners.
For transgender, nonbinary, or gender nonconforming people, certain sex toys may help affirm their gender identity or help relieve gender dysphoria.
Some people with disabilities or limited mobility use sex toys to make it easier to masturbate, have sex, or do sexual activities or positions that would otherwise be harder or not possible for them.
Sex toys can also help treat the symptoms of certain disorders, like erectile dysfunction, genital arousal disorder, hypoactive sexual disorder, and orgasm disorder. And some people find that sex toys help them deal with the sexual side effects of certain medications, health conditions, or menopause — like a low sex drive or decreased sensation in their genitals.
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