It’s easy to have passion in the beginning of a new relationship. There are some things we do inadvertently that negatively affect the desire between you and your partner. Sometimes that changes are important to spot things that can kill passion in a relationship. And while some relationships are meant to fizzle up and force you both to move on, others can be easily fixed by changing everyday habits
Well, if you are smart enough you will know how to downplay it and continue with the romance and passion. But if you want to prevent those distressing moments, we give you a list of the things that kill passions, knowing it will help you prevent, so pay close attention.
When someone gets injured
There’s nothing wrong with a little enthusiasm when it comes to sex. In fact, enthusiasm is something that’s usually encouraged. However, when you’re a bit over-excited, you tend to lose control of your limbs. Arms fly about the place and unintentionally hit people, you miscalculate the width of the bed and end up falling off and you get so involved in the throes of passion that you accidentally knee him in the groin as you switch positions.
Complicated clothes
Suddenly the moment of fever stops being a juggling act, the interest is no longer in discovering and caressing your skin, now your beau is focused on unbuttoning the infinity of buttons on your blouse. Well, at least it will still be entertained.
Tiredness
If you get into bed and drop straight to sleep, it’s clearly a passion killer. In our busy world, quality sleep is a rare and precious commodity, and will often be prized above passion. Tiredness is a tricky thing to tackle, but by promising yourself you’ll go to bed early at least twice a week – turning off the TV, mobile phones and computers by 9pm – you’ll start to replenish your reserves, and you might even find more things to do in bed than sleep.
Stress
Stress at home or work can seriously hamper your desire to have sex. Just as anxiety can stop you sleeping, when you’re stressed sex will be the last thing on your mind. Clear some time in your diary for you and your partner and really focus on relaxation. Take a bath, burn some candles, drink some wine; do whatever helps you and your partner relax, and then see where it takes you.
Intestinal gases
Vaginal gases can even be fun, but the ones that come from anal … be careful! The smell could ruin the moment. Take care of your health and eat healthy.
Answer the cell phone
If you already look bad interrupting a conversation when answering or looking at your cell phone. Can you imagine yourself in sex? Do not do it! Do not even think about it!
Name the ex
If you do it during a sexual relationship, you can not only forget the moment of passion, you may need to prepare for a breakup.