What is the G-spot?
There’s a small area called the G-spot, inside the vagina. It’s located about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — closest to the bellybutton. The G-spot is sexually sensitive and swells slightly during arousal and feels raised or bumpy. All women have a G-spot, but not all respond equally to stimulation of it. The only way to find out if you like G-spot stimulation is to start exploring. Finding and stimulating the G-spot can lead to orgasm – sometimes even to ejaculation, so-called fountain orgasm – and the right kind of sex toy can be an invaluable tool in the pursuit of the G-spot orgasm.
How to find G-spot?
1.Before you take your fingers on a spelunking mission, get into a sexy mood. When you’re aroused, more blood rushes to your pelvic region and the spot becomes raised and easier to find. So light some candles, fantasize, fire up some feminist porn, or do whatever else you like.
2.Once you’re all hot and bothered, inserting your finger(s) two to three inches up, curving the finger(s), and then rocking them towards the belly button.”
3.If you’re playing with a partner or a toy, you can also enter the vagina from behind, just keep the pressure pointing towards your belly button.
4. Your G-spot might feel rougher than other parts of your vagina, or feel like a ridged area, but that’s not always the case. The best way to find it is to experiment.
Sex toys for G-Spot
A lot of people need extra pressure to achieve a G-spot orgasm, so you might want to try a vibrator or a dildo designed to contact the spot, which will provide more intensity and help you to find better angles.
A vibrator can provide you with a steady rhythm and amplified sensations that your fingers won’t be able to achieve. Dildos can come in handy if vibration is over-stimulating for you.
Angle the flat, soft head of the sex toy against the spot you’ve found. You can keep it inside and recreate some of the moves you did with your fingers, or you can move the vibrator or dildo in and out, maintaining pressure against the front wall of the vagina so that the toy will slide over your G-spot as it goes in and out.
Don’t get discouraged. It’s common to have trouble achieving orgasm through internal stimulation alone, though for many people, it is possible. If you want to incorporate G-spot stimulation into a broader orgasm, try paying attention to your clitoris and your G-spot at the same time. Often, clitoral stimulation can bring you to orgasm while the G-spot stimulation adds a level of intensity and depth to the experience that makes the orgasm feel different. Try using a clitoral vibrator with your new G-spot moves and see what you discover.
It can help to go into this experience without expecting to reach orgasm. Your goal should be to relax and discover what feels pleasurable and what doesn’t. Much like developing muscle memory, you are teaching your body to remember how to find the magic spot, and new ways to feel good.
